Saturday, April 19, 2014

The man that I love and respect

Now I've done with all of my business in M town. Kinda.. Well, I don't really like this town, it's jammed every where, the driver were reckless and assh*lo, and the wind is sandy.. But don't get me wrong there's a positive side of the town. But it can't really be the reason to hold me to stay. The only person who made me reconsider of staying is my grandpa. One of 5 men that I love in this world.. He is old and weak, but what made me respect him the most is his will to live. I never understood the point of staying alive for an old ages. But watching his spirit, made me rethink about it.
Goodbye grandpa, please don't be sad.. I'll make sure to come and visit you often.

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Love - The Éros

For this post lets talk about love, not a love of a family or a love between you and your pet but more to your life partner.

First,well.. People got a lot of perspectives about love, but there's one thing for sure, if you love somebody you need to be able to accept that he/she is not perfect. you need to be able to understand your partner when he/she at their worst. you need to be able to understand that he/she can make mistakes. by doing so your relationship will last. forgiveness is the key.

Second, don't try to find someone perfect according to your imagination, you won't find one. most of one's imagination involve great physical appearance. physical appearance won't last long, time will corrode your body, but your personality will keep improving (if the person want to learn over the time). staying with one person for a very long time need something more than a pretty face. choose wisely.

Third If you love someone, you should set them free, if they love you too they'll be back. In theory, yeah.. It easier to be said than done. I won't sugarcoat it, when you love someone it's certain that you'll have expectation. You definately want to be with the one you love as long as possible, you don't want them to leave yourside or go too far away from you.

There are many kind of love but one of it can also mean obsession or wanting to have something for oneself. Not trying to be a hypocrite, I'm also like that. Even though I always try to set them free, giving them the freedom to do what they want and be what they want. but sometimes it's just hard to part away, distance is never friendly.

The last thing is, express what you really feel, tell the one you love what's inside your heart. because you never know how or when he/she will be taken away from you. appreciate the time you have with the one you love. 

Here is a touching testimony of a wife.
* try to open the videos through PC ye

P.S. HUG is the best medicine for a weary heart. ;)

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Love and respect

There'll be a day when you out grew your parents.. Your mom, your dad.. Who were once your figure head, the one you admire and who you want to become. There'll be a day when you got out with your parents and people will see that you are the alpha, the one who lead. Your parents will no longer dominant, you are the one who will do the talking and greetings.

So be patience and forge yourself. keep your respect and love your parents until that day come, no.. Keep it even after that day had past. Because to be a great man, a great leader, one must learn how to love and respect. And it's start from your smallest environment.