Wednesday, June 25, 2014

For a better future !

There's a saying in my place stated that "rich people will become richer and poor people will become poorer" I don't really believe it, no.. It's more that I don't want to believe it. But this statement isn't entirely wrong. Through out my struggle looking for a better future I can see that people with more money can get more, whether it's education, capital or experiences. With more money they can get a better education, higher achievements, which lead them for a better qualifications. Better qualifications means better job. Better job means better life.

See, for example, if you want to get a better life you'll want to work for a big companies, especially MNC companies, but the problem is MNC companies want employees who already got 5-8 years experience or at least an MBA in a recognize university. Which you cannot get without any measurable amount of money.

If your parents have a lot of money you don't really need to be very very smart, GPA 3,9++, IQ 140++,etc. they can just send you to any overseas university, get an MBA or PhD and you already have a nice tickets for a better life and you can save at least 5 years of your life. (MBA is only 2 years and studying overseas gives you a lot more experience than local, which will get a better consideration by the employer)

In a worse case scenario, if they cannot find their dream job they can always go back and continue their family business or start a new business, when they start a nee business, they can start with a bigger initial investment without worries about the risk of losing everything.

That's why it's better to be rich people, for you guys out there whos parents aren't rich. Even though our road is harder and got a lot more obstacles. I believe that our fate is in our hands and we can change it if we want to. Don't give up on life, keep your hopes and dreams, held your head high and walk with pride. Cause one day you'll be successful.

Goodluck !

Friday, June 13, 2014

Thought of giving up

I've walk far enough to chase my dream, I don't know why the road that I took is so rocky and full of thorn. A lot of tries, little success. I'm tired.. Even some of my friends were already close half of their eyes on me, underestimating and see me as a failure. Hahh.. Sometimes I just thought about giving it up and walk a different path. Yes, that thought has crossed over my mind a couple of times. There're a lot of people out there will probably try to lecture me if they know this thought. It's not a good spirit to be a successful person. Yea,I know.. But,there's just a time where you felt so tired and fed up with all the sh*t you faced for the past years (maybe the job, wife, husband, the neighbourhood, the financial situation and many more) and thinking about letting it all go and freeing theirselves up. Some of you might know what I'm talking about. If you don't, don't worry one day you will.

But,this is my dream, things that I hold up the most and I won't settle for less. One day it will pay out, I'm sure it will, hard work will never betray you. If there're some of you guys felt the same way as I do, Here are some quotes the been helping me hang through the hardship.

"A smooth sea never made a skillful sailor" - anonymous

"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Even if he dies in a ditch, A man should die falling forward" - Sakamoto Ryoma

Goodluck ! :)